Just Another Mum Blog

Parenthood is messy, exhausting, and full of “I can’t do this” moments — and that’s okay. Small Steps is my approach to parenting without shame, embracing the tiny wins, and trying again when we can. One small step at a time.

I spent pregnancy imagining motherhood as cosy lattes, wholesome routines, and a baby who definitely wouldn’t fling food at the dog. Reality? I’ve downed more reheated tea than sleep, my toddler crawls around pants-free like it’s a lifestyle, and Ms Rachel has basically become my third parent. Here’s my brutally honest, mildly chaotic, accidentally funny recap of my first 12 months of motherhood — expectation vs reality, in all its messy glory.

Struggling with a clingy toddler who always wants to be picked up? I share exactly how I set a gentle boundary (without ignoring him) — and why it worked faster than I expected.

These are the toys that actually get played with — not just stared at, ignored, or launched across the room. From a wooden farm box to a DIY box castle ball pit, my 1-year-old’s favourites spark imagination, support independent play, and even give me a few precious minutes of peace.

Mum rage isn’t a failure — it’s often unmet support. A personal, honest look at maternal rage and why silence makes it worse.

Handprint Christmas ornaments that actually survive the festive chaos 🎄 Minimal ingredients, zero painting, and perfect keepsakes — even if your little one disagrees with the process. Fun, simple, and very real.

🌱 Why I Started a TV Detox When I thought about the kind of mother I wanted to be, I imagined days full of activities, learning, connection — and no one zoning out in front of a screen. So when I decided to try a TV detox, it wasn’t out of confidence. It came from guilt and shame. I had started leaning on the TV to get through the days — something I never imagined I would do — and it made me feel like I was failing. What I didn’t realise at the time was how much screen time